It’s easier to remember someone than to forget someone, too much work just to keep yourself busy so that you don’t have time to think,drain yourself of all the energy so that you doze off after coming to bed.
Isn’t it funny how you’re the only one suffering while the other person is sleeping in peace,
Unless you love someone you can’t tell how love can fuck you up,it tears you apart,you don’t think straight anymore.
Imagine pretending to be cheerful everyday just so no one sees the pain within,hurts right ?
I wish I never fell in love, how do you get rid of this feeling? Just how?
Why is moving on this hard? I have seen people get over in a month but why can’t I?
I never wanted much,just someone to understand me and love me and care for me and thats literally it , no expensive gifts or fancy dates then why?
Where did I go wrong?
It hurts,it hurts so baaad, knowing you don’t have anyone to share the pain with.
It kills you from the inside,this unbearable pain! I don’t know for how long I can take it,All i know is that I am fighting with myself everyday.
I am scared because someday I might lose this fight,maybe my emotions will take over me.
feeling lonely:( said:
I’m a young mom of two babies and honestly even though I love it SO much i really wish I had some friends to talk to. I only have my boyfriend who works from home. Family isn’t very supportive and our old friends just want to get drunk so they don’t invite us to anything anymore. I really wish i could have a group of girl friends to hang out with<3 thank you for this space and hope you are happy today because you definitely deserve it! xxx
Life Is Hard said:
Life is so hard, for me I have to still go from house to house because I am still a child with parents whom are divorced. I miss having family time with all of my family in one room. I miss the times when there was not fighting. My dad lost his 22 year old because he was accused with doing something that did not happen and now he still keeps carrying that weight with him. He yells at people for it. But life is getting better
Twin Flame said:
Probably don’t get a lot of messages here from Men. I’m so lost. This girl I am in love with has lost her way and there’s nothing I can do to help her. I suffer watching her suffer and making bad decisions. She moved across the country to try to start new and things have just been going bad for her. I wish she knew how much I love her. I’ve told her before but I don’t think she knows, or maybe she just doesn’t care. She’s got so much healing to do and I just hope she does It and things can be better
I don't feel right? said:
I’ve lately been going through a really hard time, with friendships, relationships, school and basically just feeling good about myself. I’m honestly not sure why, I think it might have something to do with stress or just wanting to be good enough for everyone but, I just feel overwhelmed and frustrated that I can’t work through these feelings. My friend went through a really difficult time and I guess that I feel like I’ve been comparing my story to theirs and feeling mine is less important or less difficult, and even though they are feeling better, I feel so scared and worried about their mental health and mine. When I come on a website like this and read all these stories and seeing how people are feeling similar to me it feels good, and reading these messages on self love and learning to accept myself is wonderful, but I can’t seem to bring myself to point of self love and feeling worthy of all these amazing things life has given me. Thank you all for listening, I really appreciate being able to share with others:)
I dumped my exam said:
I dumped my exam in my study as a nurse. I have totally lost heart and find it so hard to overlook and I feel completely down. I continue, because it’s my dream studio, but I think it’s so difficult at the moment and I don’t know what to do about it. I haven’t told anyone how i feel. Fake it, till you make it..
Domestic Violence Awareness said:
I want to share, my sister at the age of 17 was murdered by her boyfriend. She was in a domestic violence relationship and sadly he ended her life as well as his life. The title of the news paper article was “teenage romance ended murder-suicide” this was not a romance, she was afraid and he was very abusive. She finally had the courage to leave but feard for her life. This message is for all women don’t ignore the signs, there’s help out there! Like your message says “ you’re not alone” I still miss her!
ugh said:
i want a bf so badly but men nowadays are so crappy and ik not all of them are but yeah thanks for listening hope you all have a lovely day <3
Petals 🌸 said:
You grew from the root of the earth into a beautiful flowers. As life went on your petals were tugged on and torn off. You were meant to re-plant yourself and water your own roots to grow taller and stronger than the shadows of your fallen petals as if they were fallen soldiers.
Xoxo. Jess R.
What's Wrong With Me? said:
One of my best friends went trough some bad things in her life and she is finally feeling better, she can smile again. But I can’t…I get this sudden outbursts of sadness. When I am in my room I suddenly start crying without a reason or when I am riding my bike, the tears roll down my face. I don’t know why I feel so sad. If someone asks me “How are you doing?” I say “not okay, I am feeling down” and we just move on with the conversation as if I said that I felt amazing. I don’t know what to do to make myself feel better. I don’t want to go to my friends because I don’t know what’s wrong with me. And I have the feeling they can’t help me.
Thank you for reading
Ly, have a nice day <3
(And sorry for my English)
Self Love said:
I know we are all unique and different which makes us who we are. I just hate that social media has these beauty standards, we got to have a pretty face, with toned bodies etc to basically get all the likes and be popular. All I see over tiktok and Instagram is just these gorgeous woman who have these perfect body/face, wishing I was like them. It just sucks that it has to be that way. Don’t get me wrong I do love myself and my body it’s just that other people are the issue and like to judge making me feel like I’m ugly compared to the rest of the people out there… I know we are beautiful in our own ways but I really hate how people rely on beauty standards to make up if your pretty or not.
Anyways… I can’t wait for the self love set to come. This set to me is a reminder to love myself, love my body and not to be too harsh on myself because we all tend to be hard on ourselves. Nobodies perfect and the only opinion that should matter at the end of the day is yours. So live laugh and love your life, we only live once so make the most of it.. screw the judgemental negative people. Good vibes only ❤️🤍
Sometimes I Wish I Could Be My Old Self said:
Sometimes I wish I could be the old me again. I was kicked out of my church 1 year ago today because I chose to believe that my best friend being gay was not a sin. Since then my life has been on a steep downgrade and I feel as though I have hit rock bottom. Everything I believed in and the safety that I was held in was all a lie – my whole life was a lie. I don’t believe what I used to believe and I am proud of the beliefs that I trust in now – but sometimes I wish I was the old me again. The one who was naive and didn’t know that the people I believed in only cared about me conditionally. The one who cared about others feelings above my own. I know now that my feelings are valid and I need to cherish myself, but it’s so hard when trauma makes me feel guilty for it all the time. Sometimes I Wish I Could Be My Old Self.
*enter* the feeling of never being good enough said:
why do i have that feeling again where i dont feel like im enough. why does it feel like im never going to be enough for them. and if im not enough for them, then am i really ever going to be enough for someone else? it hurts a lot to feel like my worth isnt like the worth of someone else. but maybe im better being off alone. i mean honestly do we really need men in our lives 🙄🙄
Sometimes Sorry Isn’t Enough said:
Ive said sorry to many people in my life even tho i didnt do something wrong. Ive forgiven many people without them saying sorry. Sometimes i want to scream, cry, yell and run away as fast as i can just to forget. But i just hold it in because im the strong one. Also i regret not saying i love you to those people i had close. But i have many goals and i hope I achieve all of them this year and to those who are reading this. I hope u are well. Sometimes things happen for a reason and sorry isn’t enough anymore. When u can say i love u to those u care about. Just do it. Life is to short. Love u all and i hope u have a great year. Also always look for positive thing and remember a bad day only has 24hr. The next day will be better. But it depends on you.
XOXO
By NW💕
Sometimes Sorry Isn’t Enough said:
Ive said sorry to many people in my life even tho i didnt do something wrong. Ive forgiven many people without them saying sorry. Sometimes i want to scream, cry, yell and run away as fast as i can just to forget. But i just hold it in because im the strong one. Also i regret not saying i love you to those people i had close. But i have many goals and i hope I achieve all of them this year and to those who are reading this. I hope u are well. Sometimes things happen for a reason and sorry isn’t enough anymore. When u can say i love u to those u care about. Just do it. Life is to short. Love u all and i hope u have a great year. Also always look for positive thing and remember a bad day only has 24hr. The next day will be better. But it depends on you.
XOXO
By NW💕
I Love You said:
I’m sorry I waited too long and now I lost you. We were friends but more for a year and you wanted me first. Now that it’s over I feel guilty for whatever I did. I don’t want to loose my best friend. I miss my best friends, and I never got to tell you but I love you.
Thank You said:
Thank you for creating this safe space. I’m going through a really hard time in life and it’s nice to have somewhere to vent.
how do i make things stop spinning said:
so i just got quarantined and it feels like life just goes on without me. all my friends seem fine and i feel like if i told them how i was feeling they’d listen but i don’t want people to know how vulnerable i am and i don’t know who to trust and i want to talk to my best friend but whenever we’re not together for more than like three days she finds new people and it makes me feel like shit. she can just replace me so fast but i don’t think i could ever replace her. this morning i like half spilled my feelings and when she didn’t respond i said “nevermind im okay its fine” and she said “ok”and oh my god that did not feel good. but like she’s been my best friend forever and idk what to do. i’m not mad or anything i just want to know that she’s always there for me because it feels like she never is. or i wanna feel like anybodys there for me but it feels like if i was dying everybody i know would walk the other way.
Sweat Set said:
I got this set for myself and honestly the best sweat suit ever! Had to buy my mom and sister one also !!! Cant wait for whats next to come! Waiting for my knit set to come in!!
Lonely or Alone? said:
Honestly ever since covid started its been pretty hard to find things to do and really just find something to fill time with. Its had me feeling more alone than usual. Not sure if I should get used to this feeling or? Anyways, thanks for this
Ur Biggest Fan said:
Love all the messages behind your brand 🤍❤️ Wearing your sets give me all the confidence in the world.
Mads said:
I love you Julia. I’m always here for you to be your biggest supporter. My queen xoxo
Comments
Breakdown said:
It’s easier to remember someone than to forget someone, too much work just to keep yourself busy so that you don’t have time to think,drain yourself of all the energy so that you doze off after coming to bed.
Isn’t it funny how you’re the only one suffering while the other person is sleeping in peace,
Unless you love someone you can’t tell how love can fuck you up,it tears you apart,you don’t think straight anymore.
Imagine pretending to be cheerful everyday just so no one sees the pain within,hurts right ?
I wish I never fell in love, how do you get rid of this feeling? Just how?
Why is moving on this hard? I have seen people get over in a month but why can’t I?
I never wanted much,just someone to understand me and love me and care for me and thats literally it , no expensive gifts or fancy dates then why?
Where did I go wrong?
It hurts,it hurts so baaad, knowing you don’t have anyone to share the pain with.
It kills you from the inside,this unbearable pain! I don’t know for how long I can take it,All i know is that I am fighting with myself everyday.
I am scared because someday I might lose this fight,maybe my emotions will take over me.
feeling lonely:( said:
I’m a young mom of two babies and honestly even though I love it SO much i really wish I had some friends to talk to. I only have my boyfriend who works from home. Family isn’t very supportive and our old friends just want to get drunk so they don’t invite us to anything anymore. I really wish i could have a group of girl friends to hang out with<3 thank you for this space and hope you are happy today because you definitely deserve it! xxx
Life Is Hard said:
Life is so hard, for me I have to still go from house to house because I am still a child with parents whom are divorced. I miss having family time with all of my family in one room. I miss the times when there was not fighting. My dad lost his 22 year old because he was accused with doing something that did not happen and now he still keeps carrying that weight with him. He yells at people for it. But life is getting better
Twin Flame said:
Probably don’t get a lot of messages here from Men. I’m so lost. This girl I am in love with has lost her way and there’s nothing I can do to help her. I suffer watching her suffer and making bad decisions. She moved across the country to try to start new and things have just been going bad for her. I wish she knew how much I love her. I’ve told her before but I don’t think she knows, or maybe she just doesn’t care. She’s got so much healing to do and I just hope she does It and things can be better
I don't feel right? said:
I’ve lately been going through a really hard time, with friendships, relationships, school and basically just feeling good about myself. I’m honestly not sure why, I think it might have something to do with stress or just wanting to be good enough for everyone but, I just feel overwhelmed and frustrated that I can’t work through these feelings. My friend went through a really difficult time and I guess that I feel like I’ve been comparing my story to theirs and feeling mine is less important or less difficult, and even though they are feeling better, I feel so scared and worried about their mental health and mine. When I come on a website like this and read all these stories and seeing how people are feeling similar to me it feels good, and reading these messages on self love and learning to accept myself is wonderful, but I can’t seem to bring myself to point of self love and feeling worthy of all these amazing things life has given me. Thank you all for listening, I really appreciate being able to share with others:)
I dumped my exam said:
I dumped my exam in my study as a nurse. I have totally lost heart and find it so hard to overlook and I feel completely down. I continue, because it’s my dream studio, but I think it’s so difficult at the moment and I don’t know what to do about it. I haven’t told anyone how i feel. Fake it, till you make it..
Domestic Violence Awareness said:
I want to share, my sister at the age of 17 was murdered by her boyfriend. She was in a domestic violence relationship and sadly he ended her life as well as his life. The title of the news paper article was “teenage romance ended murder-suicide” this was not a romance, she was afraid and he was very abusive. She finally had the courage to leave but feard for her life. This message is for all women don’t ignore the signs, there’s help out there! Like your message says “ you’re not alone” I still miss her!
ugh said:
i want a bf so badly but men nowadays are so crappy and ik not all of them are but yeah thanks for listening hope you all have a lovely day <3
Petals 🌸 said:
You grew from the root of the earth into a beautiful flowers. As life went on your petals were tugged on and torn off. You were meant to re-plant yourself and water your own roots to grow taller and stronger than the shadows of your fallen petals as if they were fallen soldiers.
Xoxo. Jess R.
What's Wrong With Me? said:
One of my best friends went trough some bad things in her life and she is finally feeling better, she can smile again. But I can’t…I get this sudden outbursts of sadness. When I am in my room I suddenly start crying without a reason or when I am riding my bike, the tears roll down my face. I don’t know why I feel so sad. If someone asks me “How are you doing?” I say “not okay, I am feeling down” and we just move on with the conversation as if I said that I felt amazing. I don’t know what to do to make myself feel better. I don’t want to go to my friends because I don’t know what’s wrong with me. And I have the feeling they can’t help me.
Thank you for reading
Ly, have a nice day <3
(And sorry for my English)
Self Love said:
I know we are all unique and different which makes us who we are. I just hate that social media has these beauty standards, we got to have a pretty face, with toned bodies etc to basically get all the likes and be popular. All I see over tiktok and Instagram is just these gorgeous woman who have these perfect body/face, wishing I was like them. It just sucks that it has to be that way. Don’t get me wrong I do love myself and my body it’s just that other people are the issue and like to judge making me feel like I’m ugly compared to the rest of the people out there… I know we are beautiful in our own ways but I really hate how people rely on beauty standards to make up if your pretty or not.
Anyways… I can’t wait for the self love set to come. This set to me is a reminder to love myself, love my body and not to be too harsh on myself because we all tend to be hard on ourselves. Nobodies perfect and the only opinion that should matter at the end of the day is yours. So live laugh and love your life, we only live once so make the most of it.. screw the judgemental negative people. Good vibes only ❤️🤍
Sometimes I Wish I Could Be My Old Self said:
Sometimes I wish I could be the old me again. I was kicked out of my church 1 year ago today because I chose to believe that my best friend being gay was not a sin. Since then my life has been on a steep downgrade and I feel as though I have hit rock bottom. Everything I believed in and the safety that I was held in was all a lie – my whole life was a lie. I don’t believe what I used to believe and I am proud of the beliefs that I trust in now – but sometimes I wish I was the old me again. The one who was naive and didn’t know that the people I believed in only cared about me conditionally. The one who cared about others feelings above my own. I know now that my feelings are valid and I need to cherish myself, but it’s so hard when trauma makes me feel guilty for it all the time. Sometimes I Wish I Could Be My Old Self.
*enter* the feeling of never being good enough said:
why do i have that feeling again where i dont feel like im enough. why does it feel like im never going to be enough for them. and if im not enough for them, then am i really ever going to be enough for someone else? it hurts a lot to feel like my worth isnt like the worth of someone else. but maybe im better being off alone. i mean honestly do we really need men in our lives 🙄🙄
Sometimes Sorry Isn’t Enough said:
Ive said sorry to many people in my life even tho i didnt do something wrong. Ive forgiven many people without them saying sorry. Sometimes i want to scream, cry, yell and run away as fast as i can just to forget. But i just hold it in because im the strong one. Also i regret not saying i love you to those people i had close. But i have many goals and i hope I achieve all of them this year and to those who are reading this. I hope u are well. Sometimes things happen for a reason and sorry isn’t enough anymore. When u can say i love u to those u care about. Just do it. Life is to short. Love u all and i hope u have a great year. Also always look for positive thing and remember a bad day only has 24hr. The next day will be better. But it depends on you.
XOXO
By NW💕
Sometimes Sorry Isn’t Enough said:
Ive said sorry to many people in my life even tho i didnt do something wrong. Ive forgiven many people without them saying sorry. Sometimes i want to scream, cry, yell and run away as fast as i can just to forget. But i just hold it in because im the strong one. Also i regret not saying i love you to those people i had close. But i have many goals and i hope I achieve all of them this year and to those who are reading this. I hope u are well. Sometimes things happen for a reason and sorry isn’t enough anymore. When u can say i love u to those u care about. Just do it. Life is to short. Love u all and i hope u have a great year. Also always look for positive thing and remember a bad day only has 24hr. The next day will be better. But it depends on you.
XOXO
By NW💕
I Love You said:
I’m sorry I waited too long and now I lost you. We were friends but more for a year and you wanted me first. Now that it’s over I feel guilty for whatever I did. I don’t want to loose my best friend. I miss my best friends, and I never got to tell you but I love you.
Thank You said:
Thank you for creating this safe space. I’m going through a really hard time in life and it’s nice to have somewhere to vent.
how do i make things stop spinning said:
so i just got quarantined and it feels like life just goes on without me. all my friends seem fine and i feel like if i told them how i was feeling they’d listen but i don’t want people to know how vulnerable i am and i don’t know who to trust and i want to talk to my best friend but whenever we’re not together for more than like three days she finds new people and it makes me feel like shit. she can just replace me so fast but i don’t think i could ever replace her. this morning i like half spilled my feelings and when she didn’t respond i said “nevermind im okay its fine” and she said “ok”and oh my god that did not feel good. but like she’s been my best friend forever and idk what to do. i’m not mad or anything i just want to know that she’s always there for me because it feels like she never is. or i wanna feel like anybodys there for me but it feels like if i was dying everybody i know would walk the other way.
Sweat Set said:
I got this set for myself and honestly the best sweat suit ever! Had to buy my mom and sister one also !!! Cant wait for whats next to come! Waiting for my knit set to come in!!
Lonely or Alone? said:
Honestly ever since covid started its been pretty hard to find things to do and really just find something to fill time with. Its had me feeling more alone than usual. Not sure if I should get used to this feeling or? Anyways, thanks for this
Ur Biggest Fan said:
Love all the messages behind your brand 🤍❤️ Wearing your sets give me all the confidence in the world.
Mads said:
I love you Julia. I’m always here for you to be your biggest supporter. My queen xoxo